A meeting of people, the happenstance of important connections, the initial connection between lives external.
It is a fascinating topic, and one I decided I must try and write something on.
But what do I have to say about connections?
I want them. They are the means in which we are able to actuate our own selves, to be able to share what makes us, us, to bring about a response from another for something you have concocted in that mind of yours, and for them to respond in kind. People take this amazing phenomenon for granted sometimes, for what happens when we lose that sense of self, or begin to consider every aspect of what we say, or even losing ones own voice. Verbal communication can become difficult, fraught with worry that you might say the wrong thing.
So it's important to take control of your words, to make sure that what you want to say, is what you want to express about yourself.
There's the old mantra:
If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
And they are wise words, silence speaks volumes, and the refusal to actuate a result from someones thought speaks louder than any vocal rejection, for in actuating words from your own self that are steeped in negativity and rejection, we invite those perceptions of us onto ourselves from others. We express that that is a status that we have selected to resonate. We have chosen to make that negativity a part of our record. People will remember when you speak ill of others, we always do.
Hate festers hate.
Don't make hate a part of your story, keep those in the words unwritten.
I have noticed that I didn't actually write anything about meeting people, and spoke instead of the mechanisms by which we try and increase those connections, that's just how my mind tangentials. I suppose if I were to have one story I'd like to share about positive meetings is a chance encounter while wanting to play a game of pool, a game where mind and actuation of mind intersect. The Orange individual, opened up a world of working for me which had been locked away for far too long, I was able to express my design skills and have that communication design, and by extension, communication of myself, reciprocated and wanted. It's a wonderful feeling to be able to reconnect with those skills I had locked away out of fear, and an exciting prospect to be able to continue creating alongside and learning more from them.
I look forward to the creative connections that shall be created.